A handful of tips to overcome obsessions for each Zodiac Sign
We all have idiosyncrasies, personality traits and obsessions. Some of them are inherited, it’s true; others are developed throughout life. But, still, how not to blame the stars for most of them?
Being aware of this, we went in a quest: to know which are the major obsessions of each Zodiac Sign and to find tips to overcome obsessions keeping in mind the traits of each Sign. These were our findings.
Tango till they’re sore: tips to overcome obsessions
The natives of Aries are known to have a competitive nature. Their major obsession is to be the leader that everyone else follows.
Well, we think there is nothing wrong with a healthy competition, but it’s important to manage this need to be ahead of everyone else – otherwise you can get very worn out with all of this pressure you attract for yourself.
One of our tips to overcome obsessions is: don’t let your obsession be driven solely by an impulse or vanity. Try to be a better person or a better professional everyday, but do it only for your well being, not to show others that they don’t stand a chance. By the way, have you already thought about the reason that compels you to do it?
There is no doubt about Taurus’ major obsessions: money and security. Plain and simple, Taurus natives want material things and relationships that are going to last a lifetime.
There is no tip in the world that will undermine these obsessions. But, still, be reasonable. You know that your expectations are very high and that you always end up feeling empty inside.
With this we don’t want to say that you should be less demanding, but be more tolerant, specially in romantic relationships. Live everyday day as it will be the last and don’t try to imprison your partner – this will ruin the connection.
Gemini natives are obsessed to find their soulmate. We think it has something to do about the fact they are the twins of Astrology. Despite the fact they are always looking to create deep connections, the truth is that bouncing from one person to another looking for something deep can actually make you look shallow instead.
So, our tip is that you need to focus on cultivating a few close bonds, rather than a lot of shallow ones.
Cancer natives are obsessed about the comfort of being surrounded by family and friends, as well as physical comfort. This isn’t necessarily harmful, as long as they remember that anything in excess can spoil a good thing.
Our tip to overcome this obsession is to allow yourself to experience life outside of your comfort zone, rather than rely on your old securities.
Leo natives obsess the most over being loved and adored. However, they should know that there is a very fine line between being loved and being obsessed with attention. Our tip to these natives is that love is just as important when it comes from yourself. We believe they know what are we talking about.
Virgo natives are obsessed with organization and control. We believe that is the only thing that give them a sense of comfort in this chaotic world. Well, there is nothing wrong to be obsessed with perfection, but don’t let it get too out of control. Otherwise, it could cause them problems, such as developing neurotic behaviors.
Libra is obsessed on finding a soulmate. In their eyes, balance isn’t just something that comes from finding the twin flame. Balance is what brings the most meaning to your life.
To keep this obsession as healthy and meaningful as possible, start with a journey of self-love before looking for someone else to be your other half. It’s from here that should start your journey (and need) for balance.
Scorpio natives are obsessed about trust. They don’t trust people very easily, since they feel this is a very long process. However, when they do, it’s for life.
You feel the need to create a secure environment for the people you trust and, doing so, you run the risk of transforming yourself into someone who can be vulnerable. So, avoid this kind of behavior. Trust so more people can trust you.
To find meaning is your major obsession, Sagittarius! To find meaning in life, love, and within yourself. Everything you do in your life needs to have an intention.
Others might see this obsession as a way to not tie yourself down to any place or person, but it’s definitely more than that. Your need for inner growth is always leading you to travel to new places, ask thoughtful questions, and try new things.
Our advice is to trust that you know best and don’t let the opinions of others convince you that being obsessed with something is always negative. For you, it’s actually not.
Capricorn natives are obsessed about success and they could be very jealousy if someone reach success before them. This hunger for success can blind them from what’s really important: reaching their goals. So, think about this when you start behaving like a machine tomorrow.
The need for new experiences it’s the major obsession of Aquarius natives. And if this give them the chance to of being constantly rebelling against the status quo, the better.
It’s important to remember, though, that rebelling just for the heck of it is less about new experiences as it is about being afraid to admit that commitment and staying in one place is scary. While you’re on your journey to self-discovery, remember to be honest with yourself, too.
Pisces biggest obsession is the need to be needed and their biggest fears is to be alone in life because they are not entirely sure they can make it on their own. So, one of the tips to overcome obsessions is simply to be more confidant, to trust more on instincts and not to let this obsession take a dark turn and ruin something good.
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